Must-Have Wedding Photos: How to Make Sure the Right People Are in Them

cintiaally
Jul 16
3 min read

When the music fades and the cake is gone, your photos are what remain. But the best wedding photos aren’t just about the pretty details or perfect poses, they’re about the people who were there and to celebrate with you. The laughter with your best friends, the hug from your grandma, the joyful tears from Dad. These are your must-have wedding photos.

As a candid wedding photographer, I’ll naturally capture the emotion and in-between moments of your day. But when it comes to group photos with specific people, I rely on you to let me know who’s important because I may not know that your kindergarten teacher is there, or that your step-grandfather means the world to you. This post is your guide to prioritizing the people who matter most, so you walk away with the must-have wedding photos that mean the most to you.

Why the People Matter More Than the Poses

You don’t need to hand over a giant Pinterest-style shot list. I’ve got all of those key moments covered. But when it comes to relationships, you know your people. If you don’t want to miss a photo with someone special, let’s talk about it ahead of time.

Royal Crest Wedding Venue, Kissimmee, Florida

Must-Have Wedding Photos with Family and Friends

Here’s how to think through your must-have wedding photos by group. These suggestions will help you feel organized without overwhelming your timeline.

Family Portraits after the ceremony at Sugar Barn Venue, Florida

1. Immediate Family (Before the Ceremony or After the First Look)

This is your inner circle (parents, siblings, and grandparents). These people will likely already be at the venue while you’re getting ready so it’s the perfect time to get your photos with them.

Examples:

You and your immediate family
You and your parents (individually and together)
Siblings with and without their families
Grandparents

Pro tip: If you're doing a first look, we can knock out all of these must-have wedding photos before the ceremony. That way, you’re free to enjoy your cocktail hour with guests!

2. Extended Family (After the Ceremony)

These are the family members who may not be in every frame but are still a big part of your story.

Examples:

Aunts, uncles, cousins
Your family + your new in-laws
Grandparents with grandkids

Pro tip: Let family know a head of time that you want photos with them so they don’t stray too far after the ceremony. Then, assign a family member or a member of the bridal party to help gather them quickly.

3. Friend Groups, Coworkers & Other Guests (During the reception)

These shots are often candid and fun, but if there’s a specific group you want captured, let me know!

Examples:

College friends or sorority sisters/fraternity brothers
Childhood besties
Work friends or teammates
Church or volunteer groups

Pro tip: Want a big group photo on the dance floor? This is perfect way to get everyone up and on the dance floor before the party officially starts!

Make a List, Then Trust the Process

You don’t need a detailed shot list with things like bride walking down the aisle or ring exchange, just a thoughtful list of the people you truly want a photo with. I’ll take it from there and handle the rest naturally and beautifully.